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ADHD - Inspiration v Desperation - Jim Livingstone
Inspiration v Desperation

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![]() | G’day, I struggled with undiagnosed ADHD for forty-six years, feeling like I didn't fit in anywhere. Since my ADHD diagnosis, I have spent the past twenty-six years reading, researching and testing every aspect of adult ADHD with the desire to become the very best version of myself. Here are a few things I’ve learned along the way…. |
ADHD Inspiration v Desperation
Embracing inspiration instead of succumbing to desperation can provide you with a renewed sense of purpose and a powerful way to manage daily hurdles.
Desperation occurs when we focus too heavily on the past and feel stuck or overwhelmed by the difficulties ADHD brings. This stops us from seeing a brighter future, and it deepens the longer we live in the past.
We can become so internally focused that we miss the things that go right, complain, and become victims.
Refuse to live a life of quiet desperation; we can rise above the adversities we all face. By seeking inspiration, you actively shift your mindset from one of helplessness to one of possibility—from victim to victor.
Whether you read about someone else's success story, engage in a motivating community, or remind yourself of past achievements, these sources of inspiration can reframe your perspective. You recognise that if others have successfully navigated their ADHD, so can you.
ADHD adults often have a natural inclination towards creativity and out-of-the-box thinking. Inspiration acts as a catalyst for this creativity.
Inspiration can help you define and pursue realistic, attainable goals. When feeling desperate, goals can seem too far out of reach or insignificant. By looking up to individuals who have set and achieved their own goals, you can learn practical strategies for breaking down your aspirations into manageable steps. Setting smaller, achievable goals builds confidence and provides a sense of accomplishment, paving the way toward larger successes.
One of the biggest advantages of seeking inspiration is connecting with others who understand your journey. Online forums, local support groups, and social media communities can be rich sources of encouragement and motivation. By surrounding yourself with others who share similar experiences and goals, you create a network of support that can offer practical advice, shared success stories, and emotional reinforcement.
Enhancing Self-Compassion. ADHD can often bring about self-criticism, especially when tasks remain unfinished or goals unmet. Being inspired by others who have faced similar struggles fosters self-compassion. Recognising that it's normal to encounter obstacles and that perseverance is key allows you to be kinder to yourself. This shift in attitude can reduce the destructive effects of stress and anxiety, often exacerbated by constantly feeling inadequate.
Inspiration encourages continuous growth and learning. As you get inspired, you may be more open to new ideas, tools, and strategies to help manage ADHD symptoms. This attitude of lifelong learning not only aids in dealing with ADHD but also contributes to personal and professional development.
Practical Steps to Find Inspiration
· Read biographies or watch documentaries about individuals who have overcome challenges.
· Join ADHD support groups either locally or online to share experiences and insights.
· Attend workshops or seminars on ADHD management techniques.
· Engage in creative hobbies or projects that you are passionate about.
· Practice mindfulness and meditation to help control stress and foster a positive mindset.
Living with ADHD as an adult does not have to be a relentless battle against desperation. By intentionally seeking inspiration, you unlock a powerful tool that can transform your approach to the obstacles you face.
Inspiration fuels creativity, supports goal-setting, enhances self-compassion, and builds resilience. Embrace the stories, communities, and activities that inspire you, and watch as Embrace the stories, communities, and activities that inspire you, and watch as they help turn your challenges into opportunities for growth and achievement.


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Readers Review
“I really like that this book focuses on getting diagnosed with ADHD later in life because I feel like a lot of us are in this same boat and have been living with ADHD for so long with no resources and help, and we need a book like this to help guide us.
There are a lot of useful tips, tricks, and guidance within this book, along with very helpful exercises. The information is presented in such an easy-to-digest manner, and you know you can trust what's being told to you. I feel less overwhelmed because of this book, and I'm so grateful for it!” Kaitlyn L
“It’s not about perfect. It’s about effort. And when you implement that effort into your life. Every single day, that’s where transformation happens. That’s how change occurs. Keep going. Remember why you started.” — Anonymous
“Nothing gets transformed in your life until your mind is transformed.” — Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha

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