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The 3-Minute Test: How My ADHD Impatience Became My Motivator

I need to confess something that might sound familiar if you have ADHD: When I start something new, I want to know if it's working in about 3 minutes.

Not 3 weeks. Not 3 days. Three minutes.

That impatient, dopamine-hungry ADHD brain of mine has sabotaged more goals than I care to count. Start a new exercise routine? If I don't see results by day two, clearly it's not working. Try a new productivity system? If my entire life isn't transformed by Thursday, time to find something else.

Sound familiar?

At nearly 73 years old, I was facing this same pattern yet again. I'd decided to transform my body - lose weight, build muscle, maybe even see my abs for the first time in decades, ever. The logical part of my brain knew this would take months. The ADHD part of my brain was already getting bored thinking about it.

But here's what changed everything: I learned to feed my impatient brain exactly what it craved - daily data - while my body did the slow work of actual transformation.

The Daily Dopamine Solution

Instead of fighting my ADHD need for instant gratification, I decided to work with it. I created a system where I could "win" every single day, even when the big picture was moving slowly.

Every morning, I collected my data:

• Weight (even when it fluctuated wildly)

• Body fat percentage

• Steps from the previous day

• Hours fasted

• Another day without sugar or sweets

That 3-minute weigh-in and data entry became my daily hit of accomplishment. My ADHD brain got its reward, and my transformation got to continue undisturbed.

The Brutal Reality Check

Let me show you why this mattered so much. Here's a week from my journey that nearly broke me:

• July 30: 74.9kg

• July 31: 74.7kg

• August 1: 74.8kg

• August 2: 74.3kg

• August 3: 74.6kg

• August 4: 74.8kg

• August 6: 74.7kg

Seven days. Same weight. After weeks of perfect execution.

My ADHD brain was screaming: "SEE? I told you this wouldn't work for you! You're wasting your time! This is stupid! Quit now and find something better!"

If I'd only been measuring my progress by the scale, I would have quit that week. But because I had daily data points beyond just weight, I could see other victories:

• ✓ 90+ consecutive days without sugar

• ✓ 10,000+ steps achieved six out of seven days

• ✓ Consistent gym attendance despite shoulder issues

• ✓ Fasting windows maintained and varied strategically

My impatient brain got fed with data every single day, even when the main goal seemed stalled.

The ADHD Advantage Hidden in Plain Sight

Here's what I discovered: ADHD impatience isn't a bug - it's a feature, if you know how to use it.

That same restless energy that makes us quit "boring" long-term goals can become the fuel for incredible consistency. We just need to restructure how we measure progress.

Instead of asking "Am I there yet?" every day (which leads to quitting), I learned to ask "Did I show up today?" The answer was almost always yes, and that kept my momentum alive through every plateau, every fluctuation, every moment of doubt.

The 90-Day Proof

Today, I'm 8.2 kilograms lighter than when I started (80.9 Kg). My body fat has dropped from 26.4% to 21.5%. I've built over 8kg of muscle mass. At 73 years old, I'm in better shape than I was at 50.

But here's the real victory: I maintained an unbroken chain of sugar-free days through shoulder pain, head colds, weight plateaus, and life chaos. Not because I have superhuman willpower, but because I gave my ADHD brain what it needed - daily evidence of progress.

Your 3-Minute Revolution

What goal are you avoiding because it feels too slow, too boring, too uncertain?

The secret isn't changing your ADHD brain - it's changing what you feed it. Find ways to create daily wins while your bigger transformation happens in the background.

Maybe it's:

• Tracking pages written instead of waiting to finish the book

• Celebrating workouts completed instead of obsessing over pounds lost

• Counting days of new habit completion instead of waiting for life-changing results

• Measuring effort invested instead of outcomes achieved

Your impatience isn't your enemy. It's your secret weapon, waiting to be properly aimed. Use your impatience to double down for a few days, start Phase 2 if you stall.

The same restless energy that has derailed your goals can become the daily fuel that powers them - if you're willing to think like your ADHD brain instead of fighting against it.

Give it the 3-minute satisfaction it craves and watch what becomes possible over 90 days.

Next week: How I used one simple, non-negotiable rule to rewire 73 years of habits - and why it worked when everything else failed.

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